Is private school cheaper in Cary or Stamford?

Cary has lower average private school tuition at $11,500/year vs $29,900/year in Stamford. That's $18,400/year less, or $239,200 over a K-12 career.

How much can I save on private school by choosing Cary over Stamford?

Average tuition in Cary is $18,400/year less than Stamford. Over 13 years (K-12), that's $239,200 per child. Religious schools are the most affordable option in both cities: $8,100/year in Cary, $16,500/year in Stamford.

How do Cary and Stamford private school costs compare to the national average?

The national average private school tuition is $12,350/year. Cary averages $11,500/year ($850 below average). Stamford averages $29,900/year ($17,550 above average).

Private School Cost: Cary vs Stamford

Cary averages $18,400/year less for private school (160% cheaper). Over K-12, that's $239,200 per child.

Bottom Line

Cary is the cheaper city for private school. Average tuition: $11,500/year vs $29,900/year in Stamford. Religious schools run $8,100/year on the low end.

Cary

$11,500

avg tuition/year

$850 below national avg

Lower cost

Stamford

$29,900

avg tuition/year

$17,550 above national avg

Tuition by School Type & Grade

Category	Cary	Stamford	Difference
All Schools (Average)	$11,500/yr	$29,900/yr	-$18,400
Religious Schools	$8,100/yr	$16,500/yr	-$8,400
Independent/Prep	$24,100/yr	$59,500/yr	-$35,400
Elementary (K-5)	$9,800/yr	$25,400/yr	-$15,600
Middle School (6-8)	$11,500/yr	$29,900/yr	-$18,400
High School (9-12)	$13,800/yr	$35,900/yr	-$22,100

K-12 Total Cost (13 Years)

Cary

$149,500

Stamford

$388,700

Choosing Cary saves $239,200 per child over a full K-12 career. Two kids? That's $478,400.

Sample Schools

Cary

Cary Academy

Independent · 6–12 · $25,800/yr

Thales Academy (Cary)

Independent · K–12 · $7,200-$9,400/yr

Stamford

King School (Stamford)

Independent · PK–12 · $47,800/yr

Bi-Cultural Day School

Independent (Jewish) · K–8 · $26,400/yr

Full Cary breakdown → Full Stamford breakdown →

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About This Comparison

This comparison uses NCES Private School Universe Survey data, adjusted for metro-level cost-of-living differences. "Average tuition" blends religious schools (Catholic, Christian) and independent day/prep schools. Religious schools typically cost 60-70% less than independent schools in the same city.

Grade-level estimates (elementary, middle, high) are derived from the city average using national grade-level multipliers. High school tuition typically runs 15-25% above the city average; elementary runs 10-20% below.