Is private school cheaper in Stamford or Wilmington?

Wilmington has lower average private school tuition at $10,000/year vs $29,900/year in Stamford. That's $19,900/year less, or $258,700 over a K-12 career.

How much can I save on private school by choosing Wilmington over Stamford?

Average tuition in Wilmington is $19,900/year less than Stamford. Over 13 years (K-12), that's $258,700 per child. Religious schools are the most affordable option in both cities: $16,500/year in Stamford, $7,100/year in Wilmington.

How do Stamford and Wilmington private school costs compare to the national average?

The national average private school tuition is $12,350/year. Stamford averages $29,900/year ($17,550 above average). Wilmington averages $10,000/year ($2,350 below average).

Private School Cost: Stamford vs Wilmington

Wilmington averages $19,900/year less for private school (199% cheaper). Over K-12, that's $258,700 per child.

Bottom Line

Wilmington is the cheaper city for private school. Average tuition: $10,000/year vs $29,900/year in Stamford. Religious schools run $7,100/year on the low end.

Stamford

$29,900

avg tuition/year

$17,550 above national avg

Wilmington

$10,000

avg tuition/year

$2,350 below national avg

Lower cost

Tuition by School Type & Grade

Category	Stamford	Wilmington	Difference
All Schools (Average)	$29,900/yr	$10,000/yr	+$19,900
Religious Schools	$16,500/yr	$7,100/yr	+$9,400
Independent/Prep	$59,500/yr	$21,100/yr	+$38,400
Elementary (K-5)	$25,400/yr	$8,500/yr	+$16,900
Middle School (6-8)	$29,900/yr	$10,000/yr	+$19,900
High School (9-12)	$35,900/yr	$12,000/yr	+$23,900

K-12 Total Cost (13 Years)

Stamford

$388,700

Wilmington

$130,000

Choosing Wilmington saves $258,700 per child over a full K-12 career. Two kids? That's $517,400.

Sample Schools

Stamford

King School (Stamford)

Independent · PK–12 · $47,800/yr

Bi-Cultural Day School

Independent (Jewish) · K–8 · $26,400/yr

Wilmington

Cape Fear Academy

Independent · PK–12 · $16,400/yr

Wilmington Christian Academy

Christian · K–12 · $9,400-$11,800/yr

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About This Comparison

This comparison uses NCES Private School Universe Survey data, adjusted for metro-level cost-of-living differences. "Average tuition" blends religious schools (Catholic, Christian) and independent day/prep schools. Religious schools typically cost 60-70% less than independent schools in the same city.

Grade-level estimates (elementary, middle, high) are derived from the city average using national grade-level multipliers. High school tuition typically runs 15-25% above the city average; elementary runs 10-20% below.